I still miss my ex but my aim IS improving...

So I'm talking to KT about old boyfriends and it occurs to me that we are on completely different wavelengths with them. She is the queen of drama and messy breakups, while I tend to get bored and wander off. By this same token she is left wondering what has happened to old loves (with one exception that we both still talk to and even have dinner with him and his wife when they're in town). I know exactly, in painful detail, where my exes are. KEB on the other hand remarries hers so she's a different breed entirely-lol.
I'm not sure that either of our ways is healthy (sadly KEB's is actually healthy because Z is good for her). She obsesses over where they are and if she made a mistake, while mine, up until last year kept trying to interfere in my life. Sorry just a random thought blog.